usually a strong woman, but currently destroyed. I’ve been thru many many pet deaths, every one horrible in their own way. I know I must live a sheltered, blessed life because this may be the single worst thing I’ve ever experienced.
#LAUGH AT MY PAIN DAILYMOTION DRIVER#
We also decided to say that it happened on the street by an anonymous driver who must not have even known it happened to spare them from thinking a horrible neighbor hit and ran.
I’m trying to go about the day normally since we decided not to tell the kids until my 12 year old comes home later. Some (many) would laugh at the ridiculousness of this story, but I am literally in agony. This happened 6 hours ago and my husband knows the whole story, completely forgives me and buried our boy. I quickly moved him to the side of the house without my son looking and drove my son to football practice. Thank God my 14 year old son didn’t know what happened and thank God he was absolutely dead and not just injured. I heard something and thought I had a tire problem- I jumped out to look and there he was. It’s really hot and he must have closed his eyes and gone to sleep- he does that but I never realized he couldn’t sense the car starting up. In the five minutes it took to open the garage door and pump up a couple footballs the cat walked under the car and laid down. He was a dear cat- the very sweetest I’ve ever had and I’ve loved many, but he was white and deaf. I just backed over my son’s beautiful sweet cat WHILE MY SON WAS IN THE CAR with me. View Member Profile Send Email Find Member's Topics Find Member's Posts Lisarb I am so sorry this senseless tragedy has happened to you, I truly am. We understand it all here and will be here for you.
You will definitely need more support and you will find that within this site and among these caring people here. We sorely need to learn from their example.ĭon't worry about your friends not understanding, it is just not possible for them to know what you are going through right now. Our beloved pets have only the ability to forgive and to love. That is what she took with her as she left this earth and crossed over to rainbow bridge in the arms of her angel, not the circumstances of this tragic and sad accident. She was loved everyday for the ten years she was with you. It comes down to the same crucial thing: you must forgive yourself!! Stop and think if it would have been your husband or someone else you love that this happened to what would you say to them? Most of which none of us would do on a normal basis. As hard as it is to face, and I'm sure I would feel the same for awhile, you must not dwell on the I should have.what if I.I wish I.if only I would have., and I could go on. You can beat yourself up at a constant rate and it still doesn't change the word "accident". That is what you must hold on to and try and forgive yourself. You know that you would have never done anything in the world to hurt your sweet kitty and in fact, would have done anything you could to help her. Accident, according to Webster, is,"An event that takes place without one's foresight or expectation". No matter what we believe or don't, though, the honesty of it is that it was an accident. For the most part, I believe that a certain fate is involved and that there would have been no stopping what happened. I sometimes swear that evil must have a hand in some of these occurrences. I am deeply sorry for this tragic accident and for what you are going through. I can only imagine the horror, the pain and the guilt. View Member Profile Send Email Find Member's Topics Find Member's Posts HeartsickII I would appreciate any support you could give. My friends don't really seem to quite understand why this affecting me so much. We will all miss her and I can't stop thinking about it and reliving it. I had to go home and tell my 3 young children while my husband got her and burried her. I am so upset about the pain she must have been in after I hit her and the look on her face while she was so injured and helpless. Although I knew it was more dangerous, I just couldn't make her live life inside. She loved being outside and spent 10 years enjoying the outdoors. I think that if I had been more cautious that day, it could have been prevented. It was one of the most horrible things that has happened to me and I am having a really hard time forgiving myself. I watched her crawl under another car and die within about 15 minutes. Yesterday I accidentally backed my car over my 10 year old cat. View Member Profile Send Email Find Member's Topics Find Member's Posts mross
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